My Youth Group Is Bored — What Do I Do?

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My Youth Group Is Bored — What Do I Do?

Every youth leader has been there: you’re halfway through your session, and the energy in the room is… flat. The kids are yawning, fidgeting, or just staring at their phones. Don’t panic — boredom is normal, but it’s also a sign that it’s time to switch things up.

Here’s how you can get your youth group back on track and make every session fun, engaging, and memorable.



1. Start With a Quick, High-Energy Icebreaker

Sometimes boredom happens because the group hasn’t had a chance to warm up and get moving. Icebreakers are perfect for this! They loosen everyone up, get the energy flowing, and help your group bond quickly.

Try some of our favourites:


2. Keep the Main Thing the Main Thing

Even if the energy dips, your youth group will always respond best when there’s a clear focus. If your sessions are faith-based, make sure Jesus remains at the center, and plan activities around that theme.

Tips for keeping focus:

  • Start each session with a short, exciting devotional

  • Include discussion time where the kids can ask questions or share stories

  • Make sure your leaders are excited about the material — enthusiasm is contagious


3. Get Everyone Moving

Boredom often comes from sitting too long. Physical activity not only gets kids engaged but also helps them burn energy and focus better when it’s time to sit down.

Some game ideas:


4. Give Older Kids Some Responsibility

Teenagers and older youth often get bored because they aren’t involved enough. Give them a chance to:

  • Lead a small game or activity

  • Organize team groups

  • Help set up materials

This gives them ownership of the session and keeps the energy high while teaching leadership skills.


5. Use Variety and Surprises

Kids get bored when sessions are predictable. Mix it up! Some ideas:

  • Rotate between high-energy and quiet activities

  • Add themed nights, challenges, or tournaments

  • Include creative activities like building or craft games

Check out our other posts for inspiration:


6. Connect With the Kids

Sometimes boredom is a sign that kids aren’t feeling connected. Make an effort to:

  • Eat together if possible

  • Sit with the group during activities

  • Help out with simple tasks (like washing up or tidying)

Being present and involved goes a long way toward keeping their attention and engagement.


Final Thoughts

Boredom doesn’t have to ruin your youth group sessions. With high-energy icebreakers, purposeful planning, active games, leadership opportunities, and connection, you can turn any low-energy night into one your group will remember and talk about for weeks.

For more ideas and detailed step-by-step guides, check out our other articles: